Wait, what?! Well, not quite. I’m not done with minimalism as an ethos, but I think I might have reached what ‘my minimalism’ looks like in terms of my physical possessions.
I’ve spent the past couple of years decluttering, downsizing and reducing the new stuff that I bring into my life. After the initial purge, when I first discovered minimalism, I now do a ‘mini purge’ once every six months to keep on top of the clutter that creeps in.
During these mini sessions, I always try to challenge myself, to test whether I really want to keep items. I ask myself –
“Have I used this since the last clear out?”
“How many multiples of this item do I really need?”
“Am I ever going to get around to finishing this project?”
I try to be as brutally honest with myself as possible, which helps me slim down what I own. But sometimes pushing to be the most minimal that I can be, means I sacrifice being prepared or having options (see my post on minimalism vs frugality vs sustainability vs organization).
In the past few purges, I think I’ve found my limit on how minimal I can be for my current lifestyle.
I got rid of an item that I kind of wish I still had. Not a big thing – a straw summer hat that I purged because I have a practical bucket hat that it great for hiking but doesn’t look as nice. Looking back, I didn’t need to be as strict with myself and could have kept both this more ‘fashionable’ version and the practical version of a sun hat.
Of course, I can always re-buy it if I really need it, which is another principal of minimalism. There’s always a balance between being storing stuff ‘just in case’ and finding out that you later need something you threw out. The ratio doesn’t have to be perfect, and I think there are probably only a handful of items I’ve regretted parting with compared to the hundreds of items I no longer own. I haven’t even regretted it enough to re-buy them, it’s been the odd dress or piece of clothing that I felt I was a bit too strict with myself over.
But this sun hat tells me that I no longer need to stretch myself to minimize my items. I’ve reached a comfortable balance, where I can own multiples of some things to suit different occassions.
The trick will be keeping this balance.
Have you ever decluttered anything you wish you hadn’t?
You’re right, I’ve gotten rid of thousands of items and never thought of them again, compared to this one that I’ve regretted! I think I just need to be less aggressive with trying to own the very minimum of items. My calendar/schedule on the other hand needs some serious attention!
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That’s the fear that prevents some people from decluttering. Honestly, I can’t say I have ever regretted anything I’ve decluttered.
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